Have you ever wondered why sex is so important to most relationships? There are those who won’t date you if they feel that sex is off the table. They expect that after the date they will be invited home and shown a good time. And for many, all they need is to “hit it once.” After that encounter you are added as a notch on their belt and never heard from them again.
I believe sex has gotten a bad rap. It has become so casual that people see having sex as just another thing to do, perhaps as part of a “hook up.” This casual attitude towards sex creates a rift in relationships that should be shared.
Most people don’t know the true value of sex. And this is a terrible thing. There is so much more to a healthy sex life than having intercourse. Sex is a beautiful form of communication. It is a time of bonding between two people. It is a time of passion. It is a form of self-empowerment. It is a way to let your power flow through your body. It is a way to tap into your sexual being and to realize your sexual potential.
When you are sexually aroused, your whole body becomes an sexual receptacle. All of your senses are involved. This includes the vision and smell of sex. Some people make the mistake of thinking about having sex when they are watching a movie, or listening to music, or even eating. But it is as if people are unable to shut down some of their senses temporarily, especially the sight of a nude female.
People can perform sex after a Surprisingly strong stimulus such as sexual intercourse. There are no doubts that if you are going to have sex after a date, you will be prepared. Go to the bother to prepare the scene; plan the candles, prepare foods, and prepare the room. Apply the right cologne or scent. Have a good shower to freshen up and cleanse your senses. Have a light snack of aphrodisiacs such as strawberries, chocolates, and oysters. Take the time to listen to the one another’s bodies. Seduce your partner by touching, rubbing, and kissing. Build up the sexual tension by taking each other’s clothes off slowly.
Sometimes people afraid to have sex and masturbate. The biggest difference is that they are more open with their act of self-pleasuring. They can discuss it with their partner and become more aroused by her reactions than they are by your body doing the thing.
Remember that the power of sex is mutual. That is why it is important for you to protect your ego in this area. Your partner wants to please you as well as make her feel good. You can tell her what turns you on without telling her exactly what you want. If you don’t know it yourself, then how can you expect her to know?
There is a difference between having sex and making love. The biggest complaint that couples have is that their sex life fizzles out after a year or less. This is absolutely unnecessary. If you have a great sex life now, then that is wonderful. There is no reason why it can’t continue into the 21st century as well. You and your partner need to talk about what you like and communicate to each other so you can have great sex.
Aside from communicating well, you need to understand that sex is natural. It is part of life. You have to embrace it and enjoy it. You might think it is embarrassing orwastefulto talk about sex, but sex is a natural part of life. It is extremely importantfor your relationship to work. Sex is a Couples’ issue, not a marital one.